This week I struggled with my blog post. Not necessarily with the topic (although, there was a bit of that also), but mainly just finding the time to write. As a devoted dog mom of three high-energy pups, I am in the habit of pouring my heart and soul into each of my furry children every day. Not to mention all my other responsibilities associated with my daytime occupation, volunteer work and of course life in general. I realized long ago that it is not healthy for me if I continually focus all of my time and energy completely on others and their needs. Fact is, when we give of ourselves every day, but hardly ever re-energize, we eventually find ourselves completely drained. At this point, we just go through the motions.
We do need to find a way to recharge and refresh from time to time. We can’t just keep on giving when we have nothing left to give. Everyone around us will eventually catch on when we’re frazzled and running on empty. It is essential that we take some time for ourselves in order to re-energize, so that we can keep going. There are countless ways to give ourselves a break from the everyday hum-drum of life. Exercising, painting, cooking and baking, and many others. And although I have many interests, I have found, that writing is one of the best ways I can refuel.
Over the past seven years, I’ve written and published seven books. My next historical fiction piece A LIFE IN THE SHADOW OF THE CROWN - A Country Girl Empress Novel is almost ready to be released, along with the recipe book 'TIS THE SEASON FOR CHRISTMAS COOKIES. Not to mention that part three and four of The Country Girl Empress-series as well as several other writing projects are in the works. Some of the questions I’m asked frequently are, “How do you balance everything? How do you manage to find the time to write AND do all this other work, plus volunteer work?” I openly admit, it is never easy to juggle the growing demands of a published writer's life, with everything else. As I have mentioned earlier, I am in the midst of a struggle right now. But it helps me to keep in mind that writing plays a big part in my renewal process. Writing is a unique gift, which provides me with a creative outlet, and a way to connect with others. But how can we find the time to write with all of the other demands on our time?
Here are some techniques I use to juggle writing along with all my other responsibilities:
- Schedule your writing time. Pencil it into your daily planner or block it off on your online calendar. I like to block a little bit of time in the early morning hours before everyone else awakens. Everything else is a bonus.
- Prioritize your activities. It's a fact...we simply can’t do everything, no matter how hard we try. When we fill our lives so full with going here and there, we often lose out on the downtime that we hold so dear. It is, after all, the time we can let our creative juices flow.
- Don’t wait for tomorrow or the perfect moment! Otherwise, we will never get around to writing. Whenever possible, I like to begin my afternoon writing session after everyone has been fed, cleaned and all other responsibilities have been taken care of (or put off until tomorrow?!). Many times that means that my writing time is full of interruptions, but I write anyway...or at least I try.
- Plan for an uninterrupted writing session for once a week, if at all possible. Due to the less than ideal conditions throughout the week, I make it a point of taking a large block of writing time on the weekends. Sometimes it's just easier to focus when our surroundings are calm.
- Get your family's support. I know, it's not always easy to ask others to help out, and not everyone is blessed with a very supportive husband as I am. But when I take writing seriously, others (including my husband) are more apt to follow suit.
- Try not to feel guilty for taking the time to write. I sometimes struggle with this, because there are days when I feel I really should be doing something more productive with my time. But then, writing is also a productive activity, and when we can pursue our passions, we are our happiest. Now, who can argue with the pursuit of happiness?
So, what about you? Do you take the time to refresh on a regular basis? Do you ever feel guilty for spending your time writing?
Piper is the author of several non-fiction books, and recently added two historical fiction novels to her ever-expanding collection of published writings, In the Shadow of Her Majesty and The Country Girl Empress. When she isn't busy typing away on her computer, she can be found chasing after her furry children or holding on tightly to a good cup of coffee. Follow her on LinkedIn, Facebook, Goodreads and Google+.
Great post. I stumbled onto your post and it resonated with me. I'm constantly trying to find time to write. Lately I've been channeling Frank Hebert who I've heard wrote a majority of Dune in his car during lunch hours. If he can do it we all can. I actually wrote about this in a previous blog post of my own, https://puborperish.blogspot.com/2013/10/yep-can-be-done.html but it was good to hear your thoughts as well. Keep up the great work!ReplyDelete
Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed the article. Happy Writing!Delete
I love everything about this post! Your candor, honesty and TIPS!! I also juggle a lot, and definitely pencil in my writing time. I use Google Calendar to map out all of my commitments, including self-care trips to the yoga studio and work breaks. Fabulous post!ReplyDelete
Thank you, Angela! I'm glad you enjoyed the article. I tried to relate that writing isn't just all fun and games, and I'm no super woman, but just little me, trying to get things done. Sometimes I hit a wall, and then I have to find a way to get up, and move forward.Delete
Smart post, A. Piper.ReplyDelete
I like all your suggestions. Especially.... not feeling guilty.
Always like your thoughtful blog issues.
Thank you, T.E. Mark! So glad you enjoyed the article.Delete